tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636299560738706726.post9002093988158514708..comments2011-01-15T16:14:41.239-08:00Comments on Little Farm In The Suburbs: I am not Bridezilla.Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02103775124361012064noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636299560738706726.post-62847707877888325342010-10-28T17:39:30.589-07:002010-10-28T17:39:30.589-07:00What an amazing post! You rock, Liz :) Such a reli...What an amazing post! You rock, Liz :) Such a relief to realize I am not the only one who feels this way! Like you, I am planning the most laid-back wedding possible, and do not even have a *ton* of opinions about what I want - but the things I do want BETTER be there. That does NOT make me a bridezilla - that means I want the ONE wedding day of my life to be beautiful, memorable, and everything I've ever wanted. You are amazing - wish we lived closer so we could meet! I had a BLAST doing your wedding invitations and the word "bridezilla" didn't come to mind ONCE while working with you! xoDawnCorrespondencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15573078308702670615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636299560738706726.post-20365168537887552712010-10-14T06:13:59.962-07:002010-10-14T06:13:59.962-07:00Fabulous post.
Love,
MomthraFabulous post.<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />MomthraAnnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01019907275666753543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636299560738706726.post-64963939197056740152010-10-14T01:37:49.918-07:002010-10-14T01:37:49.918-07:00Just do what you want hun. Fuck em off. I did what...Just do what you want hun. Fuck em off. I did what I wanted, and noone dared say otherwise OR call me a bridezilla or any other name (at least to my face), perhaps they knew i would rip them a new one. :) *sparkle!* But thinking back, my wedding planning went extremely smoothly and without a hitch or drama. So i guess i can just thank my lucky stars... Good luck and keep strong. Just walk away. Its their issue, not yours. <3monzeekihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04271920463712119974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1636299560738706726.post-61456325974386454942010-10-13T21:05:25.262-07:002010-10-13T21:05:25.262-07:00Oh sweetie, I don't think you're a Bridezi...Oh sweetie, I don't think you're a Bridezilla. You're just a bitch all the time. :P<br /><br />But f*ck paying wedding prices. I was told a long time ago that you add up all the costs to make a wedding dress (i.e. what it would sell for normally) and you just double it. No explanation given. I'll bet every wedding related industry has it's variation, like that bait and switch example. I'm not saying that all such places are shoddy, just that it's an excellent time to scam people. I guess encouraging that Bridezilla "money is no object" attitudes is in their best interests too.<br /><br />My apologies to your specific friends and family, but f*ck expecting the couple to pay for guests. It's extremely polite if you can afford it to offer plane tickets etc, but that can end up costing more than the wedding. I understood that a lot of invites to distant people are under the premise of "it would be awesome if you could come but if you can't, know that we are thinking of you". Then again, I grew up in the sort of affluence where "bring a plate" (I think that's the same as pot luck) was the normal method of feeding your guests after the wedding.<br /><br />Surprise shellfish? Really? Don't they take away your license or something for that? Did they at least provide adrenalin shots? That's fair to be angry about, even without the kosher bit.<br /><br />Eh, I'm not going to go through everything. Where I'd draw the Bridezilla line is when you insist that all your bridesmaids wear something they hate and make them pay for it. As long as you didn't do that, you're probably cool <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com